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for the last 8 months i have a girlfriend. our relationship is serious, at least compared to my previous chewing-gum-duration ones. i realy like this girl and i spend a lot of my time with her. sometimes i think we could spend many years together and i'd like that.
there's an issue though. ever since i've started going out with her i haven't been able to focus on anything creative. i don't feel at all motivated to read, write or even think creatively. i also work full-time, so what i usually do is work, sleep, meet my gf (not every day), eat - in that order. she doesn't demand an unreasonable amount of my time, but still it's usually a productive part of my day. when i have a day off i either go out with her or relax, watch a hollywood flick or more seldom meet some friends.
i recently spent a lot of money on a hardware studio i always dreamed of but i have spent more time on blogging / em411ing than play with my gear, usually because i only have an hour or less before i have to meet my gf or go to work. i also missed my school's last exam period due to this issue.
the main problem is that now it's so hard to care about all this. i don't find any interest in my old hobbies and it feels like i'm subconciously giving up on my dreams. i've forced myself to put some boundaries: i spend at least a couple of hours each week working on music and promised to myself that however busy i might be i'll try to study for the present exam period.
has anybody had a similar problem? do i have to fight it or should i just let go and it will all come back eventually? should i talk about all this with her? | |
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05/18/07
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monkvolcano
maybe you're just not making the evenings 'good' enough. ;)
05/18/07
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Squeal
lulz
[extra wordz]
05/19/07
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frnortnr
my husband complains that i am on the computer too much. so i buy him more video games, and we're all happy.
edited: May 20 2007
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Jetsom
EDIT: sad bollox deleted by me :-( haha
05/19/07
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VC
My gf complains that i dont do shit around the apartment, and shes right. Althou i got my room cleaned so i might post some studio pics if i get a camera somewhere.
05/20/07
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indeep
i normally have sex with my girlfriend in from of the computer.
05/20/07
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monty
i guess i must be lucky.
i regularly jam with my girlfriend.
shes really into music.
this is the two of us playing a tune she wrote for our anniversary
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05/20/07
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jdg
holy throat singing batman!
05/20/07
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mixedtape
I love throat singing! I've got a cd of some around here somewhere, forgot who it is though.
edited: May 21 2007
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Jetsom
"The partials of a sound wave made by the human voice can be selectively amplified by changing the shape of the resonant cavities of the mouth, larynx and pharynx. This resonant tuning allows the singer to create more than one pitch at the same time."
I bet they think they're so it being able to do that (sarcasm)
EDIT: in the video - haha I really thought that one on the left was a woman until that sound came out
05/21/07
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astroid
05/23/07
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zfigz
man oh man...I find it so hard to even do music with my girlfriend in the same place as I. It's like I feel guilty or something...I just can't concentrate if someone is in the same place as me (not just my girlfriend).
I need to live alone.
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